After losing my fourth pregnancy in two years, the unimaginable starts to happen: the dates begin to blur together.
There were the memorable conception dates, the hopeful due dates, and the painful loss dates.
I want this to be a site we can provide the dates that commemorate the babies who we never got to share with the world.
Each month has it’s own page. If you would like to contribute a special date, whether it was the loss date or the due date, please email me at dd_tko@yahoo.com. Include the month and day; your baby’s name and sex, if known; and the conception age. Lastly, if you have a blog or personal website that you would like to provide a link to (whether it’s the website in total or a particular post), please include it and I will link your special date to your site.
The blogs that are linked are done with permission. If you would like to have your blogged linked without a special date, I will do so without hesitation.
I think that one of the most important discoveries I have made over these past couple of years struggling with infertility is that I am not alone. Indeed, there is more than just strength in numbers – there is love, support, and hope.
3 Comments
June 16, 2007 at 9:04 am
My friend and I were just talking about this the other day. We wanted a place for all of our dates. A place where we won’t forget. THANK YOU!
March 22, 2008 at 5:41 pm
thanks so much for creating this wonderful space. may our children not be forgotten. ~luna
March 16, 2009 at 7:45 am
Thank you so much for creating a great site where all of us who have lost can come to and remember. It has helped me greatly to commiserate with other women and realize that I’m not alone. May we all have hope and have the strength to keep trying.